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Don’t Worry, Be happy!!

Posted on October 12, 2010

Almost everyone have heard the hit single 'Don't Worry, Be Happy' by Bobby McFerrin. The song has a very catchy way of conveying its message of being happy to everyone. Bobby Mcferiin's simple message surely made a lot of people by telling them not to worry.

Living a happy, resilient and optimistic life is wonderful, and is also good for your health. Being happy actually protects you from the stresses of life. Stress is linked to top causes of death such as heart disease, cancer and stroke.

One of the better things ever said is - 'The only thing in life that will always remain the same is change', and in our life we have the power to make the necessary changes if we want to. Even if we find ourselves in an unbearable situation we can always find solace in the knowledge that it too would change.

Social networks or relationships are essential to happiness. People are different, accept people for who or what they are, avoid clashes, constant arguments, and let go of all kinds of resentments. If arguments seem unavoidable still try and make an effort to understand the situation and you might just get along with well with others.

Happiness is actually found in everyone, increasing it is a way to make a life more wonderful and also more healthy.

To be happy is relatively easy, just decide to be a happy person. Abraham Lincoln observed that most people for most of the time can choose how happy or stressed, how relaxed or troubled, how bright or dull their outlook to be. The choice is simple really, choose to be happy.

There are several ways by which you can do this.
 
Being grateful is a great attitude.  We have so much to be thankful for. Thank the taxi driver for bringing you home safely, thank the cook for a wonderful dinner and thank the guy who cleans your windows. Also thank the mailman for bringing you your mails, thank the policeman for making your place safe and thank God for being alive.

News is stressful. Get less of it. Some people just can't start their day without their daily dose of news. Try and think about it, 99% of the news we hear or read is bad news. Starting the day with bad news does not seem to be a sensible thing to do.

A religious connection is also recommended. Being part of a religious group with its singing, sacraments, chanting, prayers and meditations foster inner peace.

Manage your time. Time is invaluable and too important to waste. Time management can be viewed  as a list of rules that involves scheduling, setting goals, planning, creating lists of things to do and prioritizing. These are the core basics of time management that should be understood to develop an efficient personal time management skill. These basic skills can be fine tuned further to include the finer points of each skill that can give you that extra reserve to make the results you desire.

Laugh and laugh heartily everyday.  Heard a good joke? Tell your friends or family about it. As they also say -'Laughter is the best medicine'.
 
Express your feelings, affections, friendship and passion to people around you. They will most likely reciprocate your actions. Try not to keep pent up anger of frustrations, this is bad for your health. Instead find ways of expressing them in a way that will not cause more injury or hurt to anyone.
 
Working hard brings tremendous personal satisfaction. It gives a feeling of being competent in finishing our tasks. Accomplishments are necessary for all of us, they give us a sense of value. Work on things that you feel worthy of your time.
 
Learning is a joyful exercise. Try and learn something new everyday.  Learning also makes us expand and broaden our horizons. And could also give us more opportunities in the future.

Run, jog, walk and do other things that your body was made for. Feel alive.
 
Avoid exposure to negative elements like loud noises, toxins and hazardous places.

These are the few simple things you can do everyday to be happy.

And always remember the quote from Abraham Lincoln, he says that, "Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be."

Do You Become More Depressed During The Winter?

Posted on October 3, 2010

If you suffer from SAD syndrome or seasonal affective disorder you are not alone. Like most people I have periods of time where my stress levels seem to increase and the winter months are definately one of them. And with the winter on it's way and the thought of cold rainy weather and shorter darker days ahead, well in the UK any way, I thought I would search for some inspirational products to help us all through to the spring. And while I was searching a colleagues website I found a supurb weekly newsletter by Gary Simpson, which is totally FREE to join at the moment, called "Zenspirational Thoughts".

I have joined this myself and I am amazed at all of the free goodies you get when you join, so I highly recommend that you join too, and don't worry as there is nothing for you to buy here, unless you wish to purchase any of Gary's other great products of course. You get a free weekly inspirational newsletter, instant access to "The Power of Choice" e-book, and your own password that lets you have access to the exclusive MEMBERS' ONLY area of the www.turn-debt-into-wealth.com website where you will be able to receive your own copies of the critically acclaimed "WEALTHY MINDS" newsletter. If you want to learn the secrets to becoming wealthy, then this is where you will discover how to do it.

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Look After Your Mental Health Too!

Posted on September 18, 2010

Today I would like to focus on a very common, but very distressing problem faced by millions of people all over the world every day. You may ask what I am talking about here? Well I am talking about Panic Attacks and Anxiety Disorders.
Panic Attacks and Anxiety Disorders:
 What are they and do you have One?
There are a number of stressful medical conditions affecting people, but one of the broadest topics is anxiety disorders. Millions suffer from anxiety disorders to some degree or another, and the specific disorders vary greatly from person to person. Anxiety orders grow progressively worse without treatment, so if you think you may be suffering from one of these illnesses, see your doctor immediately.

One of the most common kinds of anxiety disorders is panic attacks. This disorder is one in which the person can have unexpected panic attacks frequently. These attacks can have a range of intensities, and they can be controlled with medical care and behavioral control. Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder is also very common. With this anxiety disorder, the sufferer has uncontrollable and unwanted urges to perform a certain task, such as brushing their hair a certain number of times, or repeatedly washing their hands.

There are also types of anxiety disorders that do not have to do with genetic conditions. The most readily available examples of this are from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) victims. These anxiety disorder patients have persistent frightening thoughts and memories of an event that was extremely stressful, such as a car accident or of a military battle.

Phobias also fall under the category of anxiety disorders. People can fear a number of things, including small spaces (claustrophobia), spiders (arachnophobia), or any number of other frightening experiences. Phobias are usually irrational and ca be very intense, and being close to the feared item, or being placed in the feared situation will usually cause a panic attack.

Many people suffering from an anxiety disorder are simply diagnosed with GAD, or Generalize Anxiety Disorder. GAD is a condition in which the person is experiencing anxiety and worry in levels higher than typical, but they are not having panic attacks or experiencing other medical conditions.

Anxiety disorders can affect all people, regardless of age, economic status, race, religion, or gender. The good news is that the medical treatment for these disorders is getting more and more refined every day. The key is to catch the anxiety disorder problem before it begins to ruin your life. A doctor can than help you treat your condition in order to help you regain or maintain in control of your life. It is absolutely crucial to see a doctor. Each anxiety disorder is different, and each specific disorder is different within each person experiencing it. If you truly want to do what is best for your body, see a doctor about anxiety disorders at the slightest inclination that something is wrong.

If you would like to receive more tips about how to cope with panic attacks or anxiety effectively, why not sign up for my 10 part mini course, entitled '10 Top Tip Secrets To Ease Your Panic Away', and begin to get your life back on track now! Click here  to get your copy of the course today!

Welcome To My Health, Fitness & Weight Loss Blog.

Posted on June 2, 2010

I will be posting tips, articles and information about many of the health and fitness issues that we face in our every day lives.  We all have a need for information relating to our health, fitness levels or our weight, and it can be difficult sometimes to find a remedy for a problem.  I have a keen interest in both mental and physical health and wellbeing, and I read many very useful books and  articles so I feel others would benefit from my research too.  I intend to share as much as I can with my readers who I hope will benefit  as much as I have from the information. So watch this space..........